How does the old man spend the old age in comfort

How does the old man spend the old age in comfort
In the compound that me live in, all know people of great-grand mother Wang, say great-grand mother Wang a blissful person. The elder person's good fortune comes from the old husband and wife mutual love and deep respect, son and daughter are all very filial. But the great-grand mother of blissful Wang met with the trouble suddenly, her spouse passed away suddenly in case of not having any omen. Great-grand mother Wang stand such a blow, come down with apoplexy too, cure half a year in hospital, the elder person has still dropped the trouble of hemiplegia. As the saying goes: "There is not a filial son before the long sick bed. " Although the elder person's son and daughter are filial, all there are one's own work, undertaking and nuclear family, and can not wait before the sick bed day and night. Family circumstances of great-grand mother Wang fair fortunately, as soon as children wish to pay the bill to ask people to care for too, children spend money going to the nurse Company to ask the nurse to take care of the old man. But who knows, has changed three small nurses in three months, or because steal the money in the dark, or because is gluttonous and lazy, or unwilling to take care of the old man at all. In a word, great-grand mother Wang care no more to invite the light nurse. Invite small nurse, by who come, care for life of old man? Son, everybody has his own difficulties by daughter. The daughter suggests sending old man to the home for the aged and spending remaining years in comfort. It is very difficult to make this resolution too. The son just began to disagree. He thinks he is respected personages, once send mother to the home for the aged, afraid of shouldering the unfilial bad name. Can't really think out better method later, have to agree to the younger sister's idea. A good home for the aged of their connection, and plan to arrange for mother to start going to a nursery with the highest standard. But elder person life or death disagree with, often in order to threaten, disagree with going to the home for the aged. The old man has her idea by oneself, she says: That is an institute of elderly person of no family. Her descendants ManTang, never expect old, have become the elderly person of no family. Very troublesome by now, children have not sent mother to the home for the aged finally, have increased big spiritual pressure instead, because the sixth of the twelve Earthly Branches of the great-grand mother of the king passes several attempted suicide This happens at my side, in a very long time, I have a fishbone caught in one's throat, expect oneself enter middle age already, old age too remote thing even. Think about parents, think about the old man around, think about too one's own one will be grown out manily and associated and said with feeling in the future. Present old man - -Including how we in the future Ann enjoy the old age? Old couple interdependent to take, couldn't be more ideal certainly, must have a prerequisite, will certainly couple together long-lived, but this piece beyond the control of subjective will of people, determine. The old man depends on the son or daughter at home, look good, three generations and hall, the big family is happy and harmonious too. But, who will the parents of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law depend on? Certainly, as the younger generation living with parents, the world chance of making a living away from home that must give up having. Ask someone to care for, it seems it is a very unwise move. But even if this very unwise move, it is not so apt to realize either: First need economy to permit, second the servant needing to hire is for years wholeheartedly, especially the last one is very difficult to get. The one left only enters this road of home for the aged, this may be more old men's last choice in the future. This kind of choice can dispense with a lot of worries. Just, the old men need to break with the conventional idea, realize from the heart this is a kind of social development trend. Possess such understanding only, social security system of us set up and develop, come well too. Select from 888 nets of health to transfer to from " Shenzhen Special Zone Daily "

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