Will the network make personality split
I am in ours recently " China Youth Online " See, a net friend says on the forum: "In the network, I think on one hand my personality gets the publicizing of ultimate attainment, but I find on one hand what I displayed is not the personality in actual life frequently. Its is true that I can't deny, but let alone deny its invention. " This net friend wants to know, the network finally has any influence on personality. I have still received the E-mail of a university student, he mentions that because receives the setback on the study, he becomes very introversive, can not melt again, then begin the network from one day to evening. He says: "It is on net for me to like, can give me conduct oneself with dignity sense while being on net, nobody looks down upon you. I have made a lot of friends, even the friend having it will phone to look for me, say I have a distinction, talk about my humour, though I am not such in reality. I seem to find the thing that I want to look for, am afraid again this will make me break away from reality further. " You study personality psychologically, has it influenced on earth to talk about the personality development of people of network? Xu Yan: This is a very interesting question. In my view, impacts on different persons of the network are different. The network is one fictitious world, this world and real world differ. People can have fictitious personality in the network, he has realistic personality at the same time. In fact, we will have too, " I who am inherent" With " I who am external " ,Oneself that we show sometimes can and all the same in actual oneself. " personality " This word, how to come? There is a famous drama performer in ancient Greece, cover up one's own face defect with mask, still reflect different personages' personality by mask at the same time. Later on the psychologist uses " The mask " It expresses personality that a word comes, that is to say, on the large stage of life, people will change the mask according to the social role's difference too, these masks are the external manifestation of the personality. There is a true real self, namely true personality behind in the mask, perhaps it and external mask is completely different. Reporter: Are what people showed in the network all fictitious personality? Xu Yan: People, in the network, there can be fictitious personality, can show the true personality not appearing in actual life at ordinary times too. Some people always see in life that act in others' wink, but on the net, you do not need to see the wink of anyone absolutely, you can well display one's own true personality very broad and levelly, freely. If actual life make to constrain very much while being self- while being true people, can behave being true again on the net, may one kind free, one is balanced. This might not be a bad thing, it is a kind of psychological regulation method too. But some the intersection of people and in name only first oneself on the net, want to pass this oneself in name only, obtain the thing not got in daily life. Such as oneself being plain, but say oneself is very beautiful, it may be the satisfaction of seeking self-respect; Some person and what feeling is true self- opposite personality will to try on the net, it seems that it is the same to play games. In a sense, the network can enrich personality. Reporter: It is satisfied to seek the psychology in the network and bring the new problem? Xu Yan: It is a kind of temporary satisfaction that this kind is satisfied, the temporary psychology is balanced, it can play a role in suring to the psychological health. But if always seek it in fictitious world, avoid the contradiction in actual life, may cause the social maladjustment. Because world of psychology be can opened after all, can handle, but a lot of the intersection of anything and you in the real world unable to handle. One should incorporate the society, should find one's own place in the society, need to do some efforts voluntarily, instead of escaping. Meet setback in actual life, get network seek satisfied at once, will form network reliance disease. Reporter: Media has already had reports to this kind of situation. Xu Yan: Someone asks, the person who often surfs the Net is really normal, it seems that the talents not very proud always surf the Net in the actual life. But research has shown recently, persons and other people often surfing the Net have no differences. Also someone is afraid there are a lot of negative effects on that people know in the network, it indicates it is not like this to study, do not use the special worry. But to one or two people, there are harmful effects. The more important thing is to see what he seeks on the net. The fictitious personality on net, the growth of people will be helpful too. For example I am a very introversive person, I hope to change myself, I can it wants to be which see export-oriented person's how associate with people, he fictitious export-oriented characteristic of people on the net. While associating in the network, he has some some experiences of experience or accumulation succeeding, may take these experiences to actual life. But some persons may publicize very much on the net, can't transform to actual life. Reporter: What kind of person is easier to change? Xu Yan: More flexible person can change in real world and fictitious world in a flexible way, can control freely. This part of people's no questions. Really a problematic one is the person that can't change in the real world and fictitious world freely, some people regard fictitious world as the haven. Reporter: Why will anyone not change freely, regard the network as the haven? Xu Yan: This has something to do with personality. Some people are flexible type, some people are not flexible type. The non- flexible person is the person adapting to in the society poorly too, when changing in the society on the issue that there will be. To them, as soon as life changes, will meet a bank. Reporter: Will the network cause personality to split? Xu Yan: Some people have very abundant personality, there are different aspect, different linking degree and different manifestation characteristics. But these characteristics are in concert and harmony each other, organic combine, but not mutual conflict. But splitting personality, there are two or more personality systems that totally separated, completely contradict, conflict each other between them. These different personality systems appear alternatively, for example a person behaves very shily and fearing for a moment, inhibit oneself everywhere, behave very export-orientedly there is not a reason at alling for a moment, even unruly unruly. This is unusual. I think, normal people surf the Net, will not go to this step, needn't be very anxious. Reporter: If a person is off the net on the net it is two people, should remind him to pay attention to? Xu Yan: I think I should see his own feeling. If he experiences the pretty good one, needn't refuse the manifestation of online personality. Because the environment is required in actual life, He has to survive like this. He has a kind of feeling led off freely on the net, keep unanimity on it unnecessary to must remind him with actual life, if so he will live too bitterly. People should a little relax appropriately. Floyd does not think people's desire can be constrained, you stop up dying here, it will come out from another place. If has not led off, people will produce the psychological problem. Leading off is more well than to getting drunk at the network, it is a of civilized society that lead the way off. Because does not need to expose oneself, the question that it is very difficult to bring the matter up at ordinary times, can exchange on the net. Everybody will propose various suggestions, help parties to open the thinking, make it handle problem more appropriately on the net, more effective. In a word, the impact on people of the network is double. We should go to produce or use the positive role of the network more, prevent or avoid its bad negative influence. Select from China Youth News
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