American women: With how many persons have you gone to bed?

American women: With how many persons have you gone to bed?
"With how many persons have you gone to bed? " This very brief problem, but always receive very long answer, no matter what this mysterious figure is on earth. Making use of open questionnaire investigation, over 600 American women reveal this mysterious figure, and disclose one's own sex public notice. "With how many persons have you gone to bed? " The man may put forward this question suddenly in the talk at night exactly dense in the sleepiness, think, woman give answer of him may frighten sleepiness disappear all him. In September of 1997, U.S.A.'s famous magazines Glamour of women did a questionnaire investigation to this question, have obtained more than 600 readers letter in reply. They all say, such a digital calculation question, topple the mountains and overturn the seas after evoking countless complicated mood. Among them is mixed with contradiction, sharp regret, lust of memory making people uneasy, and purely pure happiness, and the happiness satisfied. Women readers of the letter in reply, there are 10 distinction companions on average. The blue graceful doctor of Edward, is a sociology professor of Chicago University too, he says, it is very obvious that 10 individual character companions are the average which has exceeded women of the whole America. "Like, take the intersection of time and letter in reply, give the person that sexology investigate, itself entertain strong interest right away to sex, "He explains, " such person's behavior relatively takes the initiative, and the number of times is relatively frequent. " However, the sex and health columnist sends the cypress history tile the doctor thinks now, " these letters are very interesting, because they have represented the woman of a certain ethnicity, this group of women have never existed in passing history, to them, the sex itself concerns independence and experiment spirit, every part in their life, they all hope to be in the leading position. " To the readers of those letters in reply, while writing these letters, have offered them one to pay a visit to oneself and chance of the sex history of the past of analysis too. Let's listen to their voice! "I had six the intersection of distinction and companion, I think ' sex ' the intersection of oneself and most fragile and most fine and most smooth side, reveal to a way in which others understand, it is not this side that every sexy man can see me. " --Reveal the purpose silk, 23 years old, 6 individual character companions. "The total number of sex companions that I have had lets me feel a little sad, especially there are three, four people's names among them, I can not really remember. The experience makes people grow up, but the intimate sense of the sex, and the emotion which you pay, can not get back forever. I really hope I have not paid so much, and I think some experiences will let soul become weak instead, and such influence, need resuming until much time. I hope when my daughter will do such a choice in the future, can be more careful. " --Allen, 29 years old, 23 individual character companions "I and my husbands are both 31 years old, got married so far 8 years ago. We both's person and each other has had sexual relations. To my husband, and a lot of friends who know us say, we have the most ideal sexual love history. I rather agree, that is a kind of very wonderful, very safe feeling. Moreover, we have very intensive life. But I often imagine, and the different person sleeps, what kind of feeling it will be. " --Can draw, 21 years old, 23 individual character companions "I am 24 years old, and, I was still a virgin last year. As to my sex companion's number, I feel very satisfied. Sex, under the complementing each other of love, it is perfect. To be frank, I am unable to imagine myself and one meeting in the bar, and the relation happen to the person hardly knowing it, when being with my boyfriend, I can nearly take and give and ask, and feel a hundred per cent security. " --The silk Wei is inferior, 25 years old, 10-20 individual character companions The woman must understand the desire of one's own heart first before exploring one's own standard to the sexual love. In determine and before man a certain go to bed, how much 's commitment she need really and guarantee? What does she really like? How frequent is the demand? Sex, just like a lot of things, after waiting for you to surmount the appropriate boundary line, you will know where your real boundary line is. In the reader that write back, have person of half hope sex that oneself had once companion can be a bit less in number (only 7% of the people hoped the figure can be a bit higher nearly. )They will think so, not because they feel crime to the sex, or they have betrayed one's own faith, their companion, and social morals and given the woman a due behavioural norm. No, because these women think they have betrayed themselves. Why have so many woman regret after having a certain sexual relations? Readers writing back have offered into a reason made: One kind wants to prove one's own very charming aspiration, neglect of venereal disease, different to bring the matter up " No " , firmly believe sexual love it brings love to be, and unwilling to go, face consequence bring at last on subconscious. 26 years old, Shirley with 17 distinction companions wrote: "During some time after being failed in love some one times, man and I go to bed, just in order to want to remember to have that kind of feeling of sexual desire, and what a method good at using it. After after a while, it become it one kind habit,just like in you are boring, will can't help, want, eat the same. Take danger to lose friendship in me, after one the intersection of woman and man of friend of me go to bed, I have been frightened, and changed. Behind that, I have about one the intersection of time and without any sexual life of year. " And a lot of people say they have received the lesson from the past experience. "All experiences of the past of mine that I think, no matter the good or bad, is involved in sex one or have nothing to do, make up the I of today together. I, still quite like this one, ' I '. " 22 years old, Ji Na with five distinction companions says so. No matter how many sex companions you have had, can be in order that it should let this figure be increased when yourself decide that there is not any method, if there is an opportunity. "I can't change the past when has already become, but I can decide my future. " Women wrote like this that one is with 20 distinction companions. Do you have a standard figure? Only 15% of the readers think so. "I think figure 3 is perfect. Lover the first time of you one, in you two being still innocent in people, and still in study. (But want carefully you select it to the target of study. )The lover is the person bringing you experiment to irritate on the second, it is you that can learn some new skills from his body too, and try the persons of some new experiences. And the lover is you on the third Lifelong companion. " --Bonnie, 23 years old, 3 individual character companions "One is right. Excited person of this to that those will not be the uniqueness companion to the husband, I really take the place of
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