U.S.A. discovers : Many advantages of crying in right time
" L Cry " R Being often regarded as is a very disgraced thing, the sufficient manifestation after or a disaster takes place, " L Cry " R Let people feel unlucky and grieved, in a word, everybody is disagreeable " L Cry " ! In fact once in a while " L Cry " R Benefit the body and mind, do you hear of this?
Psychologists of U.S.A. Minnesota university William and Frye have done the research in 5 years in crying, the result reveals, in one month, the man cries 7 times at most, but the woman sheds tears the number of times exceeds 30 times. Kazakhstan full of trees, evolutionary biologist of Israel Tel Aviv university, says, it is the behavior that an item of mankind highly evolves to cry. Like language, only the mankind has real cry.
It is the strongest to be though sad and sad " L Tear-gas shells " L, but except that this, liking, anger, feared and can let people leave the tears bothing, for example, have feared very much that will cry, will cry while being very happy, have a angry to cry one. Should say, all these are a kind of normal behavioral response of mankind.
Latest a latest research of Hassan finds, the tears can send the selfprotectionist signal. It will fuzzy people look at line, prevent oneself from attack the sexual behavior to someone else; Meanwhile, can reveal one's own fragility, let the other side reduce vigilance and hostility, will not injure the behavior at will; Further say, the other side sees a face shedding tears, will initiate the feeling taken pity on too, support that and then offer unconsciously .
On the other hand, it is to carry on a kind of important means that the emotion communicates to cry, can set up interpersonal connection. When you shed tears unprincipledly in the presence of others' surface, are equal to sending out such a signal: I am sharing my most fragile emotion with you together, you saw my vividdest side. The other side sees this everything, will be thought, you believe in him, both sides can become the friend.
Certainly, crying does not represent fragily, it can help the human release pressure, for keeping health and spirit balanced and of great advantage. For example the baby is by crying to promote the growth of the lung, the woman likes crying but more long-lived than the man.
Frye has done an interesting test: He lets a group of persons see the touching film, and collect the tears that they flowed because of moving; Let another group of persons cut onions, collect the tear that they left because of hot eyes. Found finally, flowed because of moving " L Emotion tears " China includes the catecholamine composition, " L Reflect the tears " L There is not China . Frye points out, the catecholamine is a chemical material that the brain released at the mood pressure, if gather too much in the body, it is apt to increase and suffer from the risk of vascular disease of the heart brain.
" L Cry " R It is the leading off of emotion, while wanting to cry, needn't stand, at this moment" L The tears " R Get rid of, let body and mind of you relax in time, even more can give health and psychology " L Arrange the poison " L . So does not want " L Put on an air of cheerfulness, swallow the tears! " R In right time " L Cry " R Also the brave manifestation!
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