U.S.A. : Praise the unfavorable child for growing up and praising the way appropriately too much

U.S.A. : Praise the unfavorable child for growing up and praising the way appropriately too much

Many parents think, praising can strengthen the child's self-confidence, encourage them to make the achievement. One in U.S.A. gives birth to children the new work asserts, praising children should pay attention to the way method, praise the unfavorable child for growing up too much .
Not omnipotent
New and famous >,Jasmine by Ash Merriman and wave Bronson's collaboration . Two author think some common the intersection of child-bearing and way have improper, for example parents too much to praise child can hinder child from grow up in fact.
Author say by praise for child clever way to help them establish self-confident to become a kind of child-bearing trend parents. Parents think, this helps children to make the achievement. Britain >Quote Bronson to report on the 29th : " Have praised and already become an omnipotent medicine in the modern child-bearing method. "
However, parents if because the child finishes some trifling minor matters in power to appreciate greatly, will make children produce passive mood. Some experts think, this may be because the child does not like being praised because of the minor matter. Parents may make the child not study to do it in this way intensively again, do not know how much oneself demands to make real success hard.
Have too much of a good thing
The author cites many kinds of research results showing in the book that praises children for having too much of a good thing.
One American Stanford University reveals to 150 of students' research of this schools, the students excessively praised are often unwilling to undertake the risk, unwilling to make hard, encourage little oneself.
The intersection of Germany and the the intersection of professor and one resembling, Carol of Stanford University, study with annual 9 -year-old student when the 400 as the research object, the result shows praising for it will make them show abnormally that the child is clever, the girl is influenced even morely.
Shortly before testing, researchers told children one by one: " L You must be terrible in this respect " . As a result, student resulting mark drop 20% than usual, some score of girls drop more.
Researchers think, the children show abnormally because the praise before test make them feel the pressure.
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