American psychologist summarizes newly: marriage psychology of the love ten type

American psychologist summarizes newly: marriage psychology of the love ten type
Valentine's Day of 2010 comes together with the Spring Festival, a lot of happy love raises the curtain, a lot of lovers hand in hand have a milestone. But in the magazines of " scientific Americans " of issue of February, American psychology professor Robert and Eiberstein summarizes " scientific love ten type " very in time ,So as, let, it longs for love of people to be tasteful, have, promote the intersection of relatives and friends and " don't spend " of emotion at the same time .
First type: It is stimulated that it is small and dangerous " Aroused in interest " Feel. People engaged in some fierceness or body and mind at the adventure react, with " pass electricity " at the love Feeling extremely similar. Besides playing with methods such as the roller coaster, seeing the horror film,etc., Eiberstein also teaches everybody a little game: Two people are replacing to the layback, is being caught behind by the other side.
Second type: Near little by little. Good opinion emerge among people to help in the waterside pavilion. If two people are close to the other side consciously, let the other side enter one's own personal space on purpose, will make and stand up intimately between them quickly. Practise the law: Two people are separated by about 1 meter and stand firm, then make the distance close a little of every 10 seconds, until both sides will meet it soon.
Third type: Imitate the other side. It is easier that people are the same as with one's own similar person - --Whether no matter intelligence level, origin background or personal glamour - --Become the lover, only imitate the other side and can promote the emotion each other too sometimes. Practise the law: Two people are nearing the station or sitting down, move one's own trick at will and but will imitate the other side's movements at the same time, make sure they both feel oneself is free but both sides are unanimous.
Fourth type: Prepare some jokes. In the lasting and happy marriage relation, lovers can always let the other side laugh heartily. Study, indicate, have easy and cordial more on can let man companion that oneself laugh at womens still.
The fifth type: Thing done together. Man memory is classified and stored, if you are filled with the first person who remembers in each kind of memory of the other side, to just really make sure " to have in me, you, have in you, I " (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action).
The sixth type: Relax the psychological line of defence. Relax and warn the cultivation that just contributes to the emotion, but it is not a good method to anesthetize the nerve with alcohol. Two all right people embrace together gently, try to feel the breath of the other side, bring into step one's own breath and it gradually. Several minutes later, it is united that two people will think.
The seventh type: Yield to the other side appropriately. Do some good changes specially for the other side, for example give up smoking, stop drinking etc., will let your status rise violently rapidly.
The eighth type: Often touch gently. Simple touching can let people produce the warm, comfortable feeling, the back efficiency of dabing the other side is magical, to women particularly so.
The ninth type: Share the secret. Write the things that oneself is thinking on the paper, then transmit one's own thought to the other side through the way of the language in several minutes, let the other side guess.
The tenth type: Wholeheartedly. The person that oneself shilly-shallies will often be terribly suspicious too to the companion's behavior, lose confidence, if things go on like this, will cause fatal destruction to the relations of both sides.
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