American parents give birth to children like this

American parents give birth to children like this
Not criticizing when being in U.S.A., often children are brought to my home by parents and played. " Your carpet and furniture are very beautiful! " " I like your enthusiasm! " These praises coming from child's mouth often make me surprised. If you are not careful a piece of unseasonable clothes has been worn in a certain occasion, the familiar Chinese compatriot that holds in place with a net can remind or criticize face to face frequently, or discuss behind one's back. And Americans would not make a fuss and appraise you officiously, it is the personal freedom to wear the clothes and wear caps after all. Only if what should be said, that must be " How out of the commonly! " Wait for the praise -like. Generally speaking, Americans will never criticize others face to face. Speak, spend money wealth by several good word more, glad listener of saying etc., why not do it? This spreads and teaches children imperceptibly, it is not merely the appreciation of the foreign people, the child will still praise and repay to the relative in home frequently: " Mum, you are very competent! " " Granddad, I will become as healthy as you long! " Listen to innocent praise of child, will feel, benefit from very much? Ordinary the intersection of pet name and I go, in the house, friend of American, as a guest, hear her call one's own young son 3 year old with one's own ears " Peter " . J. Peter only calls my name too, call his granddad directly " Knicks " ,Do not have " Auntie " , " Granddad " Such suffix. In addition, Americans make to give the pet name to children, not as painstaking or sweet and oily like Chinese either, those infants' infant name is ordinary and ordinary, American parents are unwilling to let children grow delicately from doting on because of the name. Embody American child's confidence on the social activity on such a minor matter and at will, the expression affectedly shy and shy with more strangers than the Chinese child is bold and optimistic obviously, establish the quality that everyone is equal for coming in and going out in society and human communication in the future. There are four little five -year-old boys at the really equal neighbour's, he is driving the toy car to play in the courtyard once, father pushes away to the door from the room, ask whether he has used the safety belt? Why was not the driving license taken? How are the police while driving without a license, in full detail clearly and logically. If according to Chinese thinking, so little a child can understand something, why take a lot of explaining for this. But Papa and Mama of U.S.A. think they will tell you though adult child differ at the age so, can be all equal in the position. Encourage the toy car which participated in the once little boy to go wrong, father not only repairs for him in the courtyard by oneself, call child, start, participate in together still, busy with being back before being busy; Child ask father answer question, assume the air of treating one of the same age friending equal conscientiously while being busy the same still. After the toy car has been built up, father is light to pat the little child's head, stretching the thumb speaks anything, it is slapped waving that the little child is friendly too. I see in give garden weed, prune in the house work father later on, always shout and have children to do together, demonstrate happy and harmonious kindred pictures. Mustn't break the rules is not may well be lax that Chinese parents educate one's own principles of children, but in implementing actually but often because one's own reason takes the lead to destroy the rule already concluded, such as the child's sleep question. In the American family, all order and erect the time that the child falls asleep, as soon as time arrives, the adult will remind children to go to bed. The child forms a habit to fit to family's humanity late consciously gradually, no matter what activity the adult is still going on. That parents of China reserve rule often in on New Year's Day and other festivals, have guest come to visit, tolerating children violates under the some situations. " Grandparents come to see you today, needn't go to bed early. To sing a children's song, make grandparents glad! " " It is rare and great to celebrate a festival, needn't go to bed so early, to see we play card. " Not only imply child's rule can be destroyed, but also the adult is breaking this rule setting an example by personally taking part. To child, parents protect the persons who are raised of the support of the people, it is the real model that can imitate even more. The parents in U.S.A. all pay great attention to the image that oneself sets an example, child's game of taking out a lot of time and accompanying, and guide in the practical thing of life patiently and educate children. Transfer it to from mother's baby's network (express gratitude to Ms. Qin Wei and offer some materials)

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