American god son " Seven is resented big "

American god son " Seven is resented big "
Education experts of some children of U.S.A., summarize " seven is resented big " that parents may present while educating children :


Occupy a commanding position - --If " you do so and must be buffeted " , " I have been in age of yours for a long time on ", " you do not hear and must hear too " Wait a moment. If parents are always " Stand high above the masses " ,The child will present " The oral heart refuses to obey " Response,finally get half the result with twice the effort.

Rant and rave - --If " you think oneself is very competent " " you are a our talent " When. The child, the one that is most afraid is the cutting remarks of coming from parents' mouth.

Absolutely deny - --If " you have never eaten a meal carefully " , " you always lie " Wait a moment. If speak the words " Definitely " ,Will initiate the child's antagonistic psychology.

Exaggerate - --Such as " this is the best toy that plays which I have seen " , " you are the most beautiful girl in the whole world " Wait a moment. With the growth of child's age, they will say gradually that contain the moisture in your, after growing to manhood, will be half-believing,half-doubting too to others' praise.

Personal attack - --Such as " you win the picture very beginning pig fatly " , " you win the picture very beginning donkey stupidly " Wait a moment. The child can realize this kind of includes " Evil intention " .

Threaten to threaten - --If " I imprison you to confine if not to do the homework carefully" , " let you feed wolves if you are not obedient " Wait a moment. This kind will let the child lose the trust to parents to intimidate.

Cold as ice and frost - --If " you have not seen I am busy " , " after a while wait until " Wait a moment. The child hears " The unspoken words in a play " : The adults are not interested in thing that I do, they do not regard me as their sweetheart's treasure.


U.S.A. God son Resent
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