Phenomenon faithful record of the online marriage

Phenomenon faithful record of the online marriage
" online marriage " Near popular fashion term in the surfing the Net clan of period of time. The online marriage is a kind of fictitious marriage, it passes the gifted communication terms of the network, make men and women imitate the realistic procedure to finish " Get married " ,And experience love life in the environment of a picture and text. The relevant data show, already 120,000 people have participated in " online marriage " at present China will come, like such approximately fictitious " love " Concerning can be found everywhere in the present network. Someone says it lays a foundation in reality but surmounts reality - -It equilibrates work to be hollow quiet to fall in the intersection of material desire and people of times appropriate like this perhaps, having brought life and illusion more at the same time, the drama conflicts with realistic ethics. No longer choose the online marriage A woman, 20 years old, university student, touch net for two years, serve as the edition owner on some domestic forums. Admitted to the university in 1998, knew its online boyfriend B in summer of 2000, held the online wedding in some domestic portals BBS on Valentine's Day of 2001, " wedding " And then unreasonable to twist often, many people regard this online marriage as A and B fry means and ramble wantonly, lead to the fact finally A and B relation is scattered. A shows that if can start from the very begnning, will not choose the online marriage again. A sits on a certain position of the bar of San Li Tun, big eyes, a pretty face. Tell the network wedding of she and B leisurely for the reporter now. Say it is then like that it has had a few excessive jokes that God has turned on one for her. She is helpless, annoyed, angry for this. "He and I are writing hands in this circle, from understanding to know, we take a shine to slowly, and begin love online. " A says, this is she and process of cognition of B, this love comes simply, directly, both sides have not used one's head sedulously. Meet by chance on the net, in love in the telephone, get along on the net, the online marriage finally - -Their BBS forum of the big a certain portal at home is held " The wedding " . The ones that were invited at that time to be present were mostly more famous author and commentator, good at talking in professional jargon, must quite line to make room with benefit heat of the marriage wedding. And the reporter has attended for three hours as the specially invited guest, the ones that participated in and witnessed the whole course ha make a noise. The identity is " Bridegroom " Boy remain by well-mannered one all the time on wedding to be low-key,on the contrary, A seems anxious to share one's own happiness to all insiders. They show their love course and crystallization, including " wedding " to all persons who show up The characters leisurely of deep love dropped for the other side ago, " got married " The ones that register on a certain website hour " The certificate " ; And recollect and full of heartbeats and romantic incidents between them with enthusiasm. Will everybody guess what this section of romantic ultimate attainment will cause? Just as what Moll's law have said, the thing will not always develop towards direction that we expected. She sits on a position of the bar in San Li Tun now, the look is depressed, finish drinking the beverage, have ordered very strong wine. Refer to her online marriage, an ignorant now, helpless, tired and irritation. This online story does not seem ideal. The big and small situation takes place after wedding successively. One appears with A at first " Boyfriend " Person that identity call oneself, attempt, go on harass, destroys and even personal threat with network to A and relation of B. Thereafter, some editor, has written the network wedding of A and B in an article, after this article appears on the newspaper, another stone evokes a thousand layers of waves, cause the word snowflakes of various attacks generally to " bride " Fly here, someone say she play for the gallery, wedding look light to be fresh and incomparable, meet the intersection of onlooker and game of curiosity just in fact, but she and B are clowns in games; Someone says the composition compositions of the main marriage are the responsibility, but their network wedding does not have responsibility at all. Someone says she and he does not understand at all, can begin to understand after meeting at least In this case, the emotion of she and B is being moved towards drifting apart slowly, they are maintaining the trust to the other side in suspicion difficultly each other, attempt to neglect outside influence. In fact, A was felt deeply and puzzled too, she has wavered to the basic confidence of love online. "These speeches, I do not know how to explain. Before this, I do not find out about online marriage. When notice friends came to participate in my network wedding, someone tells me, a friend of hers should hold the network wedding on Valentine's Day too, but in fact, he was just online marriage three days ago. It seems to really have such a person, get married inside MUD ceaselessly, it is in love to vary ID and different woman players ceaselessly too in different way. I see, always have some things making people despise on the net, and these were born not because of network, just reflection on the net of actual life. " The reporter asks A, if come once again, will you still choose to love he or online marriage? A says that should still insist on her loving, but she will never know the online marriage. She thinks the fictitious natural instinct of the network is to cause her failed greatest reason, this caused by a kind of psychology to the social phenomenon of people to reflect, or not believing after deceiving. Moreover, she herself has had to treat the past of the network with the psychology of the game, perhaps this is a revenge to her of reality. Let the online marriage become a small apple of reality, reporter of editorial department of the Qingdao edition of weekly magazine of Shandong. Surfed the Net in 1997. It is enlisted in the armed forces to specially employ at the beginning of 90, distributed into worker team's kindness majestic Men's Volleyball Team of the body of Chengdu Military Area Command. Knew the girl friend of 1981 softball team in 1993, the first love, said good-bye 7 years later. Admitted to the sports of Chengdu Physical Culture Institute in 1998. It is happy to know the online girl friend in 2000, was making room notarizing the online marriage with reason chatroom and girl friend of fast OICQ in 2001, and plan to get married 2 years later. While interviewing this, the online marriage experience that the small apple that athletes come from determines to provide him for reporter voluntarily. In 1998, the small apple was admitted to the sports of Chengdu Physical Culture Institute to study in. This period of time, he just went through a grieved failure in love. Heart unusually hollow depressed, he to fascinated by the network and chat. Ground bubbles are while calling the chatroom up to reason in one that he does not divide time. One day, he saw a network was called the happy girl, she did not speak to him on the first day inside, but he feels very interesting, because this girl leaves promising while leaving: "Will come here tomorrow, I have a chat with you. " The next day, they had a chat for whole 5 hours on the net. Did not say to her until the eyelid can not be really propped up: "I have rolled off the production line first, phone you in the evening. " The other side has not refused. Meeting after the telephones, after meeting, he has regarded her as one's own favorite person, and she has admitted his identity. At ordinary times, they communicate by way of network still, on the net especially with match with couple openly in the predestination chatroom, talk about If you can't equal, last the ones one's own as reason by house. Until one day, they think all feasible ways unable to contain their emotional intensity, mutual reality does not allow both sides to further develop temporarily, mainly the wife has not arrived yet France
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