8 pieces of the happy marriage
In recent years, the trend that the divorce rate rise appears in a lot of countries. Get married and just say in two or three years " over " Incident of common occurrence. Are young people for keeping the marriage really so disappointing? I had ever listened to a speech of relevant marriage life, the speaker explained the piece of eight different roles of the skill in playing chess of China wonderfully, it is a indispensable key element in the happy marriage life: Want unanimity of the words and deeds, no say one set before the able person, did one set after the person, in this way officers and men will be convinced. It is the same to manage the marriage, should pay attention to it with the impressions that are given to the other side after marriage before marriage, like one before and after the attitude wants, did not need after the lover turned into the remaining half, the psychology is different. The person husband and wife should all have sense of duty to the family. In the intersection of marriage and life, no one can breach or prevarication, just like sergeant while fighting, defend the position to the last, does not give up or surrender. Like magnanimous a large amount of, can bear and can hold. The same hobby or like one cup aromatic good wine that assail the nostrils interest under couple, but it is a delicious assorted cold dishes delicacy that different hobby is as good as. Have, measure, accept and respect, can't have, impose, change thought of the other side. Car maintain, keep peak is busier between couple, must find out often even two people stays alone for time to have a heart-to-heart talk often, the emotion is unlikely to go far gradually, or often " the trouble drops anchor " . Groom's wife two want the hard working, willing to bear the burden of work like horse; Support and help each other, distance tests a horse's stamina. The marriage is like the undertaking, be careful to manage, make the investment boldly. The emotion of big gun couple wants " Steep " The more fragrant, the more see the true feelings, explain harmonious, show consideration for, healthy sexual life too, will make the happy flower in honeymoon often in bloom and does not wither. The intersection of soldier and couple want, treat each other with respect, the same string at the musical instrument for example, quiver in the same melody harmoniously, but independent each other. It can be happy to be content with one's lot while finishing life. Content with one's lot couple have no Vanity, the heart without comparison, without envying the heart, does not complain about hearts, uneven heart naturally.
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